If you’re like me, you have a drawer full of ties you’ve gotten over the years. A lot of them were probably gifts, some you may have bought as “emergency ties” on the street, others were ties that you bought because you saw them and liked them. But bottom line, now you have a drawer full of dozens, maybe even hundreds of ties. If your office environment is business casual, chances are you’ll wear one of those ties once every couple of months. If you still wear a suit to work, chances are your co-workers and clients have seen the same tie in the rotation over and over again.
TieSociety.com seems to have come up with a brilliant solution. They’ve set up a system where, similar to services like NetFlix or GameFly, you can pay a monthly membership fee and rent a tie (or cuff links). Their selection is impressive–some of the ties they have would cost you well over $50 to buy in a retail store. And as styles change, so will their selection (be honest–how many “thin ties” do you still have in your closet waiting for them to come back into style?)
Here’s something that’s even cooler–during the entire month of September, the Tie Society will donate 50% of new membership fees to the Prostate Center Foundation. Just use code “bluetie” when you complete your subscription on TieSociety.com.
Also, they’ve announced that September 20th is “Blue Tie Day”. On that day, wear a blue tie to show your support for helping end prostate cancer!
Here’s something pretty cool that Cosi does every year around this time. They’re offering a free salad to teachers of kids from pre-school age to 12th grade. The deal starts at 5:00 PM on Thursday, September 20 and continues until closing at Cosi restaurants that are participating (and if they’re not, shame on them!). There’s no purchase necessary, although you’ll probably need to show some proof that you are in fact a teacher.
If you have a teacher in your life, be sure to forward this to them, or better yet take them out yourself after school to the nearest Cosi!
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If you have a brand new PC (or wiped an old PC clean and want to install the latest operating system on it), Project Contact Africa has a deal for you.
On eBay they’re selling authentic, full OEM versions of Microsoft Windows 7 Home Premium. Unlike on Amazon where you’ll pay $175, here you can get it for the ridiculous price of $79 with free shipping. And furthermore, 100% (that’s right, 100%) of proceeds will go to Project Contact Africa’s mission.
While the listing isn’t clear of how they’re doing this, my guess is that they’ve received a large number of donations of these (probably from corporations who bought PCs but decided to install Linux or something). If that’s the case it’s a win-win-win situation–the original donors gets their tax deduction, Project Contact Africa gets an infusion of donation money to help its cause, and you get an official copy of Windows 7 for less than half price.
While their Web site is in bad need of updating, read Project Contact Africa’s blog to see pictures of some of the great things they and their volunteers are doing to help feed people in Africa.
For years I used to watch Jerry Lewis’s telethon for muscular dystrophy every Labor Day. Sure, it got schmatlzy and corny at times, but there was just something wonderful about seeing Jerry every year with his kids.
Sadly, the MDA seems to have made a couple terrible mistakes in the last few years. The first was the unceremonious way in which it let go of Jerry Lewis. I don’t care what Jerry Lewis did or said–after 40 years of what he gave to the organization, after him being largely responsible for $1.6 billion in donations, and after bringing the organization and its cause to such prominence, the very least they could have done was to have given his a respectable and respectful send-off. What was once an iconic live event now seems to be relegated to a pre-taped program. Somebody dropped the ball. Regardless of this, it’s important to remember that there are still those suffering from MD that need your help.
The folks at MDA should probably take a few notes from the folks at Stand Up to Cancer. In many ways, the telecast set to air on September 7 on all four major networks as well as a ton of cable stations (BIO, E!, ENCORE, HBO, HBO Latino, ION Television, Lifetime Movie Network, Logo, MLB Network, mun2, Palladia, SHOWTIME, Smithsonian Channel, STARZ, STYLE, TBS and VH1) feels like the metaphysical successor to what MDA did for so many years. It’ll feature performances and appearances from some of the country’s top celebrities, from Taylor Swift to Coldplay to Alicia Keys.
The cause is one that really hits home for me. I lost my mom to cancer years ago. By the grace of God, I also had cancer but made a full recovery. Just a few weeks ago, my fiance’s best friend was diagnosed with a very severe form of cancer. My boss’s brother in law is in the final stages of his fight.
Chances are that cancer has affected you as well. For 50 years our government has been funding research, but while some progress has been made the truth is a lot of that government funding ends up in bureaucrazy and red tape. If Charity Navigator scrutinized how much of our tax dollars that are directed towards charity actually makes it to the charity, I have a feeling Uncle Sam would get a failing grade even worse than the worst-run charities.
That’s why SU2C’s approach is incredibly exciting. In their own words, SU2C “was founded on the belief that we are at a pivotal juncture with the potential for transformative progress in cancer research because of two trends: breakthroughs made in our understanding of the basic science of cancer, and technological advances that enable us to translate them into new treatments. Today’s cancer researchers need additional funding to fulfill the promise of life-saving discoveries, and Stand Up To Cancer engages the public to support their work.”
This year’s telecast marks the third “telethon” that will be taking over the airwaves, the first being in 2008 and the second in 2010. Since the first SU2C telecast in 2008, the organization has made grants to seven “dream teams” that are focusing on cutting-edge innovations to cancer research: the SU2C Epigenetics Dream Team, the SU2C Pancreatic Cancer Dream Team, the SU2C PI3K Pathway Dream Team, the SU2C Breast Cancer Dream Team, the SU2C Circulating Tumor Cell (CTC) Chip Dream Team, the SU2C-MRA Melanoma Dream Team and the SU2C-PCF Prostate Dream Team.
In addition to donations, one very tangible way you can support SU2C is by shopping their online store. Unlike so many other charity promotional items that seem to skimp when designing their promotional items, SU2C’s online store contains clothes, jewelry, activewear, and designer collections that make amazing gifts. Not only are the gifts useful and beautiful, more importantly they’re conversation starters. When I wear my SU2C shirt, people sometimes ask me what it is. I tell them all about Su2C’s innovative approach to fund raising and project funding. Invariably we start to talk about a loved on who has cancer or who was lost to cancer. And it inspires giving.
So tune in Friday September 7 at 8:00 PM and donate generously so we can put an end to the scourge of cancer.
Well, the last two posts have been on somewhat controversial topics, and so I thought I’d dedicate this post to something as non-controversial as you can get:
PUPPIES!!!!!
Each year the Guided Dog Foundation and America’s VetDogs holds a bike tour. I posted in 2009 how my then-girlfriend (and now-fiance) Lisa rode the 10 mile bike tour only a few months after a liver transplant. Thank God, she’s doing well these days, and she, her brother and I will be riding in the 30 mile bike ride. I’m terribly out-of-shape and I’m getting to the age where it takes me a lot longer to recover from these kinds of things, but hopefully this will help me lose enough weight to fit into my tux, which I’ll be wearing at my wedding a month later. 🙂
The Guided Dog Foundation and America’s VetDogs are an amazing, amazing organization that trains dogs from the time they’re puppies to become service dogs. If you look at these dogs when they’re puppies they’re like any other happy-go-lucky puppy…they scamper around and flop on each other and then fall asleep. But it’s nothing short of amazing to see what these dogs grow up to be. They give sight to the visually impaired, they are the arms and legs of the disabled, and they provide much-needed companionship and undying love to those who gave their all for their country.
I usually point donations in other directions, but in this case, I hope you can donate generously to my own donation page.
If hearing about the mission isn’t enough to convince you to donate, here’s something that I hope will. PICTURES OF PUPPIES!!! These are from the bike ride in 2009 when we were given a behind-the-scenes tour afterwards.
The moment I was waiting for all day: Puppies!
Sleepy puppy!
Happy Puppy!
Pensive Puppy!
Can you hear that last little guy? He’s saying “giiiive….giiiive…” 🙂
There, I said it. That’s the one thing that’s not being said among this whole mess that’s going on with Lance Armstrong.
I’ve read the proclamations by the US Anti-Doping Agency of how Lance Armstrong is an unrepentant cheater. I’ve read the message from Lance Armstrong of how he was the most tested athlete in the history of the world and passed every test. And I’ve read dozens and dozens of pages of pontification from journalists both amateur and professional.
For me the bottom line is, we’ll probably never know the truth. Is it possible that Armstrong was indeed at the center of a great conspiracy that is just starting to unravel? Yes, it’s possible. Is it possible that a quasi-government organization is cherry picking evidence in order to knock down a world renowned athlete and in doing so bolster its own power and prestige (not to mention its funding)? The way our government works these days, I hate to say it but….yes, it’s possible.
And so unlike those dozens of journalists I’m not going to make a judgement one way or another. We live in a world where journalists are like sharks in the water. If they see blood in the water, there’ll be a frenzy until the body is completely destroyed. That’s not what we do here.
The one thing that is beyond dispute is the good that the Lance Armstrong Foundation has done for this world. Since 1997 it has raised $470 million for the fight against cancer, $100 million of that from sales of yellow wristbands. Last year, 225,700 people suffering from cancer were served by the Foundation. It has a 4 out of 4 star rating from Charity Navigator from both the perspective of how accountable and transparent it is in its dealings, as well as how efficiently and effectively it spends it money. 81 cents of every dollar donated goes directly to fighting cancer. I wonder if you look at how the Federal Government spends our tax money if they’re as efficient.
I’m not here to defend Lance Armstrong, nor am I here to attack him. If he did cheat, there’s no excuse for that. If he didn’t, there’s no excuse for what’s being done to him right now.
But I am here to celebrate the good that his foundation has done, and urge you to continue to do the same, whether it’s purchasing LiveSTRONG merchandise, or even better, participating in an event or making a direct donation. Because cancer isn’t going to stop to argue about whether Lance Armstrong doped or not. And frankly, neither can we.
As divided as the country is today, the country stood together that September day in 2001 when President Bush shouted to the Ground Zero workers and to the world that “the people responsible for knocking these buildings down will be hearing from all of us soon”. And likewise, the country stood together when President Obama announced on an evening in May 2011, “I can report to the American people and to the world that the United States has conducted an operation that has killed Osama bin Laden.”
Of course that unity lasted all of five seconds. Pretty soon people on the left started shouting of how this was a triumph for President Obama’s brilliant foreign policy. And then people on the right started shouting of how it was all President Bush’s brilliant strategy that President Obama inherited. Soon, Hollywood came in and started asking for access to the CIA and administration officials, smelling the opportunity to make a blockbuster movie. The right complained that the left was using this for political advantage. The left complained that the right was just jealous. The Walt Disney Company even tried to trademark the phrase “Seal Team 6”.
The irony is that while the political leaders and Hollywood producers were all tripping over themselves trying to grab their share of the glory, the real heroes are the ones we never hear about: the young men and young women who saw the horrors of September 2001 and decided to serve their country, as intelligence officers, as law enforcement officials, and as members of the armed services. As silly as their bosses behave sometimes, we can never forget the sacrifices that these men and women and their families made to protect the freedoms so many of us take for granted.
The Navy SEALs are a particularly exceptional group of soldiers, and SEAL Team 6 / DEVGRU represent some of the elite of the elite, men who are in top condition both physically and mentally. Because of the nature of what they do, we almost never hear behind-the-scenes stories from them, but every day they are putting their lives on the line for us in ways we’ll never be able to know or appreciate.
Kathryn Bigelow’s big movie about the Bin Laden raid is set to come out in December; from the trailer it looks like it’s going to be a grand movie, complete with dramatic dialog, heart-pounding music, cool special effects, and all the other bells and whistles you expect from Hollywood.
But it makes me chuckle a little to know that one Navy SEAL has beaten Hollywood to the punch and will be releasing his book No Easy Day: The Firsthand Account of the Mission That Killed Osama Bin Laden. The book is scheduled to launch on September 11, 2012, eleven years after 9/11. The author, who’s writing under a pseudonym that the geniuses in the media decided to divulge, was reportedly one of the first members to storm into the compound in Pakistan where Bin Laden was holed up. In a press release, the author explains the book: “It is time to set the record straight about one of the most important missions in U.S. military history. No Easy Day is the story of ‘the guys,’ the human toll we pay, and the sacrifices we make to do this dirty job.”” Something tells me that the truth will be much better than any embellishment Hollywood can cook up.
While some will accuse this author of “cashing in”, in that same press release the publisher states that the author will be donating a majority of proceeds to the charities that help the families of Navy SEALs.
Here in the United States, one thing that was universal in the recent Olympics was watching the medal count. Whether it was my 10 year old niece or our company president, it’s something I heard everyone talking about.
Most self-proclaimed “experts” predicted that as in Beijing, China would take the lead in gold medals, while the USA would take the lead in overall medals. To Team USA’s great credit, they took both.
Just as in the days of the old Soviet Union, there’s something behind this that’s not just jingoism. It’s really a reflection of two different systems.
English: United States Olympic Committee logo. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
The system in the USA is one that celebrates individual achievement. An athlete participates in their sport for the sheer love of the game. They and their families make huge risks and sacrifices to pursue their dream. Some athletes are supported by corporate sponsorships, private contributions, and of course their families. And for those who are lucky and good enough to rise to the top of their sport, they enjoy the rewards that they earned. Where’s the US Government in all this? They provide indirect support by letting its citizens make tax-deductible contributions to organizations that support the athletes, but mostly they keep out of the way.
The system in China is one that’s completely different. Its focus is not on individual achievement but on collectivism. The Chinese government cherry picks from its 1.3 billion people children who show aptitude for different sports. These children are taken out of their schools and put into programs where they can be trained to dominate their sport. In some cases, children go for years without seeing their families. Recent reports have indicated that the Chinese government spent upwards of $1.57 million to train swimmer Sun Yang. And of course, now that Sun Yang won the gold medal and is getting endorsement deals, he will be permitted to keep 1/3 of any earnings, while 2/3 will go back to the system. In a nation with a per-capita income of $7500, that’s still enough to let him live fabulously, but that’s not the point. In China, it’s not about individual achievement, but the collective working together to increase the standing of the government in the world.
To quote Will Smith from a recent TV appearance, “God bless America“.
Of course it’s easy to sit back and decry the system in China while celebrating the system in the USA, but there’s one important thing to remember. The system in the USA only works if individuals step up and do their part. I’m not just talking about the athletes and their families, but every person who still believes in dreaming, everyone who looked at the medal count and smiled with a feeling of pride in what their fellow citizens have accomplished, and everyone who in their own way accomplish things every day in what is still the “land of opportunity”.
So what is “your part”? For starters, it’s understanding that Team USA needs your support. Our athletes aren’t cherry picked for their genetics from birth, and they certainly don’t get $1.57 million to train. In most cases, these are just kids with big dreams who overcome huge odds to be able to compete. They depend on support from organizations like the US Olympic Committee to build training centers and provide coaching, equipment, training, and comunications. And the US Olympic Committee depends on contributions from ordinary Americans. And while the USOC does receive corporate donations, it’s the little contributions from individuals that make the most impact.
If you’ve been enthralled by the performance of Team USA in any sport these past few weeks, don’t take this success for granted. It’s fun to enjoy the successes, but it’s important not to take for granted what it took to get there. Consider a generous donation to the USOC to keep the Olympic dream alive. For a gift of $20 or more, you can choose a free gift (which in any store would easily cost $20 or more).
If you’re a fan of any individual sport, also consider a donation to that sport’s governing bodies, which also help develop and promote awareness and participation for their sports. Here’s a list of all USA Teams that were part of the 2012 London Games.
I’ve been on a housecleaning tear lately, and one of the things I started to do was throw out my old business school textbooks.
I’m not sure why I still had them on my bookshelf; the books are all outdated, they’re not relevant to anything I’m doing, there is absolutely no resale value in them, and most of the stuff is out there on the Internet if I ever needed it. If I had to psychoanalyze myself, it could be that I’d paid about $150 each for them and there aren’t that many things in the world I pay that much money for only to toss into the trash. I think I’d considered selling them, but I’d only get pennies on the dollar. So I held on to them to see if they’d appreciate in value like gold or Apple stock (hint: they didn’t).
Such is the racket of college textbooks. I’m going to sound like an old fuddy-duddy, but if I had any advice to give to college students (who aren’t made of money to begin with), it’s to NOT buy your textbooks. Yes, as a college student I was conditioned to feel superior using my brand spanking new textbooks versus my classmates with the used textbooks. I was conditioned to think that somehow my grades would be better if I paid $150 for a book versus $10. But trust me, it’s all a scam.
I’m not even sure why it’s legal that a book that’s worth $10 sells for $150. Instead of investigating these corporations that are making a 8% profit margin instead of a 7% profit margin, I’m not sure why the government doesn’t investigate universities that charge students many times what it costs them to pay teacher’s salaries and maintain their facilities. But I digress. We keep paying, so they keep charging.
One reason I love
The good news is, even though you may still be getting gouged on your tuition, competition has come to the college textbook market. Specifically, one company I really admire is Chegg, one of the leaders in college textbook rental.
You start out by going to their site and searching for a book–for some schools you can even search by your school and course. You’ll be quoted a price to rent or buy the book. You can rent the book by the month or in some cases purchase an e-version of the book. In both cases you’ll likely end up paying 1/2 or less of the price it’d cost you to buy the book outright. In some cases when you rent the book, they’ll also give you temporary access to the e-version of the book while you wait. And all books have a 21-day money back guarantee.
If you’re afraid that you’re going to need to keep the book because it might come in handy later, trust me, I’ve had a bookshelf full of textbooks that have been unopened for 20 years. Besides, that’s what the Internet is for.
Let’s put it this another way. If I had taken the money I spent textbooks in college and bought Apple stock with that money, I’d have $85,714 right now. Instead, I have five useless and dusty books to show for it.
One reason I really respect Chegg is the charity work they do. Right on the bottom of their home page you can read about it. When they started their company, they resolved to help plant trees, which they do through American Forests–so not only does their service prevent $150 books from killing trees and piling up in landfills, they actually make up for those who do (they’ve planed over 5 million trees and counting). They also support Ashoka U, a non-profit that promotes social entrepreneurship, ONE.org to fight AIDS, and All Stars Helping Kids to help disadvantaged children.
Now for the deal-and-a-half. Click this link and you’ll get 5% Off Textbook Rentals at Chegg from 8/1/12 to 8/31/12. That’s even more money you can not pay the textbook gougers and invest for the future 🙂
When a woman goes through the nine months of pregnancy, her body goes through an amazing transformation from supporting one life to supporting two lives. Whenever we hear medical talks about pregnancy the talk always focuses on the child, how it goes from zygote to embryo to fetus to infant to a glorious noise, drool, and poop machine.
But we rarely hear about all the changes that are going on inside the woman’s body to accommodate every step of the child’s development. We hear about outward signs like nausea, back pain, and cravings, but when all is said and done there’s an amazing and dizzying amount of change that a woman’s body goes through, not just physically but also mentally and metaphysically. And it seems while there are a zillion and one books on what women should do during pregnancy, there are precious few that talk about what to do afterwards.
And so after the 9 weeks are over, very often women are left with a body that looks very much unlike the one they started with. And all too often, physiological changes can also affect emotional, mental, and spiritual states too given how closely integrated all these things are.
For women who are suffering with these changes and trying to get their lives back, Body Back is the book for you.
Heather Porter is an author who has perhaps the best qualifications to write a book on getting your body back after pregnancy–she’s the mother of four. Heather experienced many times what it was like to see her body fall apart after pregnancy. She looked all over to find books to help her, but no book seemed to be satisfactory–all too often they were incomplete or good advice was spread out over different books and not in the same place.
Heather decided to write it herself, and boy did she ever write one. I had a chance to review a copy. First of all, this isn’t a small book. It’s a hardcover book measuring in at 9.4 x 8.1 x 1.3 inches and weighing over 3 pounds. Heck, just bench pressing this book might be enough to get you in shape.
If you read through the table of contents, you’ll get an idea of the topics the book covers:
Introduction
The Naked Truth
Hair Back
Face Back
Brain Back
Teeth Back
Neck and Decollete Back
Breasts Back
Arms Back
Hands Back
Nails Back
Back and Shoulders Back
Tummy and Waist Back
Hip and Thigh Back
Legs and Ankles Back
Feet Back
Skin Back
Posture Back
Power of the Mind
Internal Systems
Medical
All About Food
Diet and Nutrition
Drink
Exercise and Sport
Environmental Toxins
Alternative Health
Relax
Woman
Nip ‘n’ Tuck
Non Surgical Procedures
Dressed
Dressing the Face
Conclusion
Vitamin and mineral glossary
Acid and Alkaline Chart
You’ll be very, very hard pressed to find another book like this. Each chapter could be (and is) a book in itself. Turning to the “Feet Back” section, Heather talks you through the reasons your feet can get hurt during pregnancy (the main one being that you’re carrying upwards of 28 pounds or more of weight they weren’t accustomed to carrying!). Then, she talks about common foot problems that women face during pregnancy, from dry feet to developing hard skin to developing blisters, fungi, or viruses, to having cold feet or poor circulation or cramps. She talks about the proper shoes to wear, creams to apply, how to properly massage the feet, and even what to tell a pedicurist. She also gives practical DIY tips, such as how to properly soak your feet, make your own healthy food scrub, and how to help your feet absorb more moisture. And that’s just the feet!
Here’s a peek at the page about taking care of your teeth after pregnancy. Multiply this by just about every part of the body and mind that can be affected after pregnancy,
And one thing I find very appealing about the book is how easy to read it is. Despite its length and its comprehensiveness it’s not like a dry medical textbook or encyclopedia. Heather’s writing reads like a friend talking to you and giving you advice each step of the way. While some may read the book cover-to-cover, I see it more as a resources that you can pick up any time to learn just about anything that’s going on with your body. Granted, a lot of this information is on the Internet, but instead of wasting your time surfing through thousands of Web pages (some of them accurate, some of them not so much so) to try to find the nuggets, this book provides the best of the best nuggets all in one place in a fun and interactive format.
Here’s Heather herself talking more about the book and how it came to be.
One awesome thing about the book is its tie-ins to charity. Prior to the book launch date, Heather donated 20% of all pre-sales to Jenny McCarthy’s autism charity Generation Rescue. After speaking to one of Heather’s representatives, I learned that Jenny McCarthy and Heather Porter have become great friends; Jenny loves the book and its plans as a mother and a woman whose physical appearance is very important to her in many ways, including her career. Heather also loves Jenny’s charity as it is something that affects all mothers and families, and so it was a perfect fit. Through Generation Rescue, Heather wanted to give back not only with the information in the book, but also find a way to add a philanthropic angle as well.
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As divided as the country is today, the country stood together that September day in 2001 when President Bush shouted to the Ground Zero workers and to the world that “the people responsible for knocking these buildings down will be hearing from all of us soon”. And likewise, the country stood together when President Obama announced on an evening in May 2011, “I can report to the American people and to the world that the United States has conducted an operation that has killed Osama bin Laden.”
